Understanding Why Walking Safely is Important - Talk to children about why walking safely is important. Walking along the side of a road is much different than walking through a park. This is not about instilling fear in children...it's about helping kids understand the reality of walking along side a road. This discussion can take place at home or while walking along the street. Unfortunately, vehicles that don't stop behind the crosswalk line, vehicles that are speeding and drivers that are distracted behind the wheel are pretty easy to spot. Pointing these incidents out to children can help them understand the importance of walking safety rules.
A Child's Point of View - As a parent it is important sometimes to get down and look at the world from a child's point of view...literally. Often times young children cannot see over cars, around corners and beyond obstructions like shrubs and fences. Take a walk with your kids, but stop and get down and check out your child's perspective. The world might look entirely different.
Stop and Look Both Ways - Remember this one from when you were a kid? It still applies and it is still the easiest way to avoid accidents. When you come to a street, stop and look both ways. My girls are not very good at this one. They rely on me to tell them when they can cross safely. I now leave it up to them to tell me when it is safe to cross the street. Stopping and looking both directions is so basic and so important.
Unplug...at least one ear...from the iPod - This one is a tough one. I remember walking along with my Sony Walkman headphones, bopping away to the music on my mixed tape as a teenager. I get it...listening to music is cool. However, now kids (and parents) walk while texting, and with the headphones on...it's a dangerous combination. The number of distractions is too high. Pull one earbud out and don't text while crossing a street. This one is a rule that needs to be instilled from an early age.
Make Eye Contact - Kids need to understand that just because they can see a car, it doesn't mean that the driver sees them. Pedestrians have to make eye contact with drivers to be certain that the driver really does see them. The need to make eye contact re-emphasizes the fact that kids cannot be distracted when they are crossing the street. An easy way to demonstrate the importance of eye contact is to have your child walk through a room in the house while looking down at the ground. While they are looking down hold up different objects - one at a time. After they are done walking, ask them to tell you the objects you were holding up. They just might have a hard time identifying the objects, since they didn't make eye contact.
When the Light Turns Green, Make Sure That the Cars Have Stopped - Just because the little "walk" symbol has lit up, kids still need to make certain that the oncoming traffic has stopped. Distracted drivers can miss the red light and keep right on sailing through an intersection. It only takes a couple of seconds to make certain that the cars have stopped before stepping onto the road.
Cross the Street at Designated Areas - Life would be much easier if people could walk across the street wherever they like. But, life isn't that easy...nope you have to cross at an intersection or crosswalk. Stepping out into traffic from a non-designated area is dangerous. Take the extra trip to the crosswalk, it's worth it to have drivers see you. When kids get to the crosswalk, make sure they push the crosswalk button. Activating the lights is very important, anything you can do to make drivers aware that you are stepping onto the road is a great thing.
Driveways, Lane ways and Parked Cars - A walk to school can mean walking past driveways, lane ways and parked cars...but are those cars really sitting still? Everyone is in rush to get where they are going in the morning, taking care when walking across driveways, lanes and past parked cars is important. Teach kids to understand the rear lighting system on a car. What do brake lights look like? What lights are bright when a car is going to reverse?
Walk the Walk - Parents are a child's number one role model. If you don't follow the rules that you have set out for your kids then everything you have said will have been a waste of time. Haven't you ever heard your child say "But, mom you said we couldn't ____, so why are you doing it?" If you are going to talk the talk - you have to walk the walk.
Be a Responsible Driver - Respect pedestrians when you are behind the wheel of your car. We all play a very important role in road safety. Many of the rules for walking apply to driving too. Make eye contact, stop and look both ways. When you are out driving with your children point out the many positive examples of road/walking safety.
When I read about accidents involving pedestrians and vehicles it makes my heart ache. It was a tragic accident that inspired me to write this post today. A young girl was struck and killed by a dump truck on her way to school in Toronto yesterday. On the first day of school...and she was so close to her school. The investigation is still ongoing. There is no doubt about the fact that drivers are responsible for pedestrian safety too. As I have said, I am a huge proponent of getting out and walking with our children. I walk a lot, as a family we walk a lot. Walking can be safe. Pedestrians don't need to be fearful. I truly believe that having a conversation around walking safety with kids early and often is every parent's responsibility.
If you are looking for more information about pedestrian safety...
Centre for Disease Control - Walk This Way!SafeKids.org - Walk This Way
Elise says
A great article, Jen. When I first moved to Ontario, I thought the phrase, "Point your way to safety" was so corny. Now, I say it every time I'm at a cross-walk with the kids. You so right about being alert and aware of your surroundings, and making eye-contact with drivers. We don't cross the street unless cars on both sides have stopped.
Jen says
Great phrase...I don't think I've ever heard it before. I'll have to use that one. Thanks.
Mae says
Love this post. I loved walking to school as a kid. We live a little too far to walk now but I am hoping we can start biking.
The Educational Tourist says
Great tips! Mine have recently started walking to school and I see the flocks of children and know the importance of walking safety. Thanks for the great post.
This is something we don't think about when it comes to traveling, but often in large cities we are on foot a great deal. Safety is always something we should think about but even more so when the cars drive on the opposite side of the road from what we are used to. I'd love to link this to my website http://www.theeducationaltourist.com where I write about traveling with the kids.
Thanks for the great post.
Natalie, The Educational Tourist